Justin pointed out that our blog might as well be called "Caleb Coos" for all the "Jamber" updates we put up on it! The past few days have been particularly busy...but here's a bit of an update on us.
I got called to be the Secretary in the Primary Presidency a few weeks ago, and man! Sundays are so busy now! Justin does his part by taking Caleb and trying to get that baby to take a bottle of milk...he's getting to be more stubborn and picky now. Still adorable. ;) It's just really busy with all the kids. I'm supposed to assign talks/scriptures/prayers each sunday for the following Sunday. Well, I was told last week to give those assignments to the parents...which makes sense and is all great and all, except that I don't know the KIDS, let alone the parents, let alone which kids belong to which parents! So, we're gonna try to figure something out. Mom Anderson suggested I still hand out the assignments to the kids, because they get excited by it, and then call the parents later that night to make sure THEY know about the assignments. It's fun. It's a bit challenging. But it's great to feel like I'm actually serving!
On kind of that same note (serving) I've been helping out with the English classes our ward has every Wednesday night. There's a GREAT girl in our ward (she's really amazing!) and she has a Masters in TESOL (Teaching English to Speakers of Other Languages...my minor) and we have a lot of non-native speakers in the ward. They come Africa, or Brazil, or Ecuador. It's pretty amazing. So, I've been helping with that. "helping" meaning I sit with Xaidie ("Zadie") with 2 other students while we talk about English. It's been fun, but I don't feel like I do that much. I have subbed for her once...and that was good!
BUT, the toughest part came last Wednesday. Justin and I picked up a sister he home teaches. She is from Africa. She speaks English, but is VERY difficult to understand. Keep in mind, I grew up with accents, I have worked with ESL students for YEARS...I am pretty good with understanding people with accents. But I have the hardest time understanding her! We take her to English class (she wanted to come), sit her down...and within 1 minute realize she does not know how to read. Xaidie looks at me, "Okay. Amber, you're going to teach *Jill how to read." Uh...okay. How do I do that again? I've studied it, read about it, even visualized it, but NONE of my experience has been TEACHING. It's always been improving, enhancing, or critiquing. But I had not idea, or at least no experience to build off of. THat was a long 45 minutes. I'm sad to say, I was getting very frustrated. I don't think she knows how to read in her first language, which makes learning to read in her second, a HUGE mountain!! I hope I didn't scare her away. I really DO want to help her, and Xaidie gave me the Church Literary materials (AMAZING!! Check 'em out!) which helped me feel a lot more in control and prepared for the next lesson. Which is tonight. I'm really hoping Jill comes back, and that I can structure our lesson to be something effective, and enjoyable. WHEW. It's really good experience for me, I just don't want it to be at the cost of Jill's desire to LEARN how to read in English. I'll keep you posted on that.
We did take our family pictures yesterday! YAY! We had one of those "free session" coupons from SEars. and we have 2 more. We're going to take JUST Caleb in a month or two. :-) because then you get a free 10x13 with it too! :-) Who says you can't have fun even when you have very little?
Speaking of very little, I've been thinking about something a lot the past few weeks. We've been praying and praying that Justin would be able to find a job...no luck yet...when I realized that we have been blessed in a different way. Instead of having more income to pay for obligations and to buy our little baby some things he needs [wants], we have been blessed to see our dollar stretch. We found a changing pad on Craigslist for $5. We found a GREAT running stroller for $5.00!! it was a bit of a drive, and it needs some major TLC, is last year's model, but it WORKS and it was $5.00!! I couldn't believe that still. We have a $15.00 gift card to Target. We found an infant-to-toddler rocker we wanna get. You can look at it more
here. But here is a picture of it, too.

I really like it because it can go up to 40 lbs, instead of the normal 25. And, when he gets bigger, it becomes a rocking chair for a toddler. 8/10 people LOVE it! So, we're hoping that after Thanksgiving Target will have a sale that will allow us to spend very little of our own money (after the 15 dollar gift card) and buy this for our baby for Christmas. :D We're pretty excited about it!
So, we might not be able to buy a lot, we certainly can't indulge on many things, but we still enjoy ourselves. We use coupons...oh! and when I cleaned out our filing, I found a subway card from last year for $15.00! and THEN, when we went to use it on our weekly date, we passed the subway we meant to find, stopped when we finally saw one, and it just so happened that THIS subway was the ONLY subway giving you two footlongs for 8.99!! We still have money left on the card! And we bought Saturday dinner and Sunday lunch!
It's amazing to see how our prayers are being answered even without the actual solution we were praying
for. Our prayers are heard, and our Heavenly Father really does care about what we want and how we are feeling. I know that. I've learned a lot in being here in MA. it's not easy, but I'm very grateful for it. I'm excited bout Thanksgiving coming up. We're trying really hard to be grateful, and to SHOW that gratitude.
Okay. that's all about me. On Justin's note...he got accepted to the Post Baccalaureate Pre-Dental program at the college he's been taking some classes at! The thing is, we're not sure if that's what we wanna do...because we don't qualify for any federal aid because it is not a matriculated program. We think he's going to just go for a second Bachelor's in Biology. We're still waiting for word on that, though. :-)
Justin is working a lot getting our online store going too. it's barely underway, but we've got some drop-shippers contracted with us, and we're working on getting the site up. It didn't cost us anything because Mom and Dad Anderson had already paid for the site years ago. We just have to build it up.
Anyway, that's a bit of an update on us! Hope you see the JAMBER back on here. :) We love our baby boy. We love each other too. :) we'll be better about updates about us along with him.
Life is good. We are blessed.